This sets dark tab colors, except for the active tab, which is higlighted
$ vim ~/.config/gtk-3.0/gtk.css
TerminalWindow .notebook {
background-color: shade (#333333, 1.02);
background-image: none;
border-radius: 3px;
padding: 2px;
background-clip: border-box;
border-color: shade (#333333, 0.82);
border-width: 1px;
border-style: solid;
/*box-shadow: inset 0 1px shade (#AEA79F, 1.1);*/
/*font-weight: 300;*/
}
TerminalWindow .notebook tab {
background-image: none;
background-color: #333333;
border-style: solid;
border-image: -gtk-gradient (linear, left top, left bottom,
from (alpha (shade (#333333, 0.9), 0.0)),
to (shade (#333333, 0.9))) 1;
border-image-width: 0 1px;
border-color: transparent;
border-width: 0;
box-shadow: none;
/*color: shade (@fg_color, 1.2);*/
color: #AEA79F;
}
TerminalWindow .notebook tab:active {
border-color: shade (#333333, 0.82);
border-style: solid;
border-width: 1px;
background-color: shade (#AEA79F, 1.02);
background-image: none;
/*box-shadow: inset 0 1px shade (#AEA79F, 1.1);*/
color: #333333;
}